shaquille o'neal and i were born on the same day, same year. he was born in nj to a destiny in the nba. i was born ... more

shaquille o'neal and i were born on the same day, same year. he was born in nj to a destiny in the nba. i was born in chicago with cystic hygroma to a single filipino parent w/ an extended dysfunctional and loving family. i'm a happily married wife to "the thin man" and stay at home mom to "paloma" and "porkchop" or "the dictators in training" (and i don't mean my cats). and everyday, i try to maintain a balance with girlzilla, wifezilla, mamazilla and all the 'zillas inbetween. i am a former art student and garment industry drone. i try to excercise creative process whenever possible. lately, i am the embarrassed author to a badly written blog and my not so great, somewhat american, unfinished novel.