I am a gay man in my mid-30's living in Amsterdam, Netherlands. I was born in Miami, Florida and have lived in many... more

I am a gay man in my mid-30's living in Amsterdam, Netherlands. I was born in Miami, Florida and have lived in many places. I spent my formative years growing up in Cary, North Carolina--outside of Raleigh. I lived 4-5 years in Florida with my father. Then as an adult I moved from NC to Tucson, Arizona. I lived there for 6 years and then my job (flight attendant for Northwest Airlines) moved me to Detroit, Michigan. After one year there, I was able to secure a transfer to San Francisco, California. I lived there from 1999-2005 and then moved to Duesseldorf, Germany with my partner. (We met in SF.) After 8 months in Germany, my partner decided to go back to school for his Master's and we are now here in Amsterdam...