Writing to Survive
Transforming the painful past and the mundane present into a coherent story, one post at a time.
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Gorilla story - 11 days ago
The house teeters above you in a nimbus of red light. A pillar of cracked, uneven steps capped by burning jack-o-lanterns ends at the front door, where cackles and howls animate the night air. “A real witch lives there,” the boy next to you... Topics: Childhood hangover
Living proof at my fingertips - 14 days ago
It was one of those conversations that I'm tired of having, but I couldn't seem to stop myself. Mr. Trinkle and I were standing against the wall at the Fox Theater in Oakland, this over-the-top restored venue from the late 1920s, drinking our... Topics: Childhood hangover
The low spark of a high-heeled boy - 18 days ago
Here was the scene: my four-year-old son wearing a pair of old high heels, a canary-yellow birthday party hat on his head, grasping a sword in either hand. It was another one of his many guises, a funny mix of feminine and masculine, underpinned by the. Topics: The kid
Faking it* - 22 days ago
Surely there are hidden meanings everywhere, waiting to be uncovered. This was my hypothesis when I started my latest self-improvement project “Barbara’s Weekly Epiphany.” All I had to do was approach the world with a childlike sense of. Topics: Blogs & bloggers, Fiction
Prognostication - 27 days ago
In my dreams, the dead are silent. I’ve never had a good conversation with a single one of them, just offer my apologies, bake the bread, pour the coffee. What is the guilt about? The dead no longer care about my transgressions. Isn’t it... Topics: The struggle




























