Periodically I get some less than kind emails from people who seem to think I must hate men or have had some horrible experience with men hence I have an "issue." Not so... the truth is, (and as most readers recognize), I started this blog...
Topics: great men

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Many women seem to have this need to be with a guy. We humans do like relationships but what is disconcerting is the idea that as long as a woman has a man all is well. Not so! Having a guy in your life should not be the dream; how about having a decent..
Topics: abuse, Cheating, commitment, Communication, Finding a Good Guy, getting out of a bad relationshiphealthy relationships, happiness, healthy relationships, high standards, strong women

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For all the women who feel they can't move on, can't reach their dreams, can't end an unhealthy or abusive relationship, or feel just plain stuck, here is one of my all time favorite quotes... (I have it on a little pewter angel hanging in my.
Topics: abuse, Addiction, Advice, Quotes, strong women, transformation

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I frequently get emails and comments from women wondering if they should break up, and how to know when a relationship is not working. Of course there is no one-size-fits all answer, and each relationship is different but here are five guidelines that...
Topics: breaking up, commitment, Finding a Good Guy, getting out of a bad relationshiphealthy relationships, high standards, hope, leaving, Listen to your gut, respect

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I often blog about the kind of guys to stay away from, those guys who do not make for a great long term partner, the kind of not-so-great guys who are best left alone. But today I am reminded of how many great guys are out there! Domestic violence is in..
Topics: Finding a Good Guy, Great things about men, great woman

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