If you have ever studied psychology at a basic level, you have probably been introduced to the theories of conditioning.  There was Pavlov’s dog who was conditioned to expect food when a bell rang, which triggered the dog(s) to drool when they...
Topics: Becky, family, Hobie, mobile phone messages, Observations, On Harry, sex, technology in the bedroom, texting

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Note: Cross posted from Maven Mapper’s Information.PermalinkI’ve had Vibrams for about 4 months now and love them.  I was a little skeptical at first.  Thought they might be a fad or something, look cool at first and not...
Topics: exercise, Five Finger Toe Shoes, Observations, running, shoes, Vibrams

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Its been over a week since I went out with my wife and what I thought at the time was her online boyfriend, whom she had met first in real life while we were out celebrating our wedding anniversary.I’ve taken the last two days off from talking or...
Topics: Becky, boyfriend, family, free love society, Hobie, jealousy, Odd Situations, On Harry, therapy

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Over the last few days, I’ve written about the pain and hurt I’ve experienced as I was surprised with the knowledge that Becky, my wife of 16 years, had developed a ‘relationship’ with another man she met on our anniversary.  She met this...
Topics: Becky, boyfriend, confidant, family, Hobie, marriage, Observations, On Harry, online affairs, online relationships, therapy

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Would it trouble you if your wife starts getting email from another man?Odds are she gets emails from other men every day, all day long, just like everyone else in the world.  Its a little different however, when that email comes from a man that you.
Topics: boyfriend, facebook, family, helicopter parents, helicopter spouses, longtail of pain, Odd Situations, On Harry

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